I have to say… that there isn’t much that I dislike about your site. Blogring, good. Interests, great. Same goes it for your profile picture. The only thing that I somewhat dislike… is the protons, neutrons thing. That’s only because I don’t really understand the whole process of an atom and whatnot.
Denial, guilt & fear? Would it not be fear, denial & guilt? You fear the worst; when the worst happens, you are in denital; then you feel like perhaps could have changed whatever had happened. No? I don’t know.
Well, anywhoo… I found you on the Intelligent Thoughts blogring.
Peace =)
Oh & did you hear that Tool is coming out with a new CD? Tool seems to be the one other thing in life that my significant other is in love with. I am constantly priviledged with knowledge about bands & their ‘release dates.’
… Yeah.
=)
Dear beanofish,
First off, thank you for your comments. Secondly, I tried to write on your site, but there was no comment section…. so I wrote here instead. Maybe you’ll read it. Thirdly, you made a good point about the order of the words I used. If I was to put it in a particular order, I would have it be fear, guilt, and denial. First, you’re afraid of something happening… then it happens, and you feel guilty for it… whether it’s your fault or someone elses… and if it’s your fault, then the only way to survive is to confront it, but that’s not what most do, because no one likes to think of themselves as being the one who is wrong. So in the end, you deny it, to make it go away.
But I didn’t put it in a particular order because I specifically was referring to something. It’s from a Nine Inch Nails song, and it’s very applicable to what I have been thinking about lately. I’m trying to confront myself with who I really am, so I can become who I want to be.
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I have to say… that there isn’t much that I dislike about your site. Blogring, good. Interests, great. Same goes it for your profile picture. The only thing that I somewhat dislike… is the protons, neutrons thing. That’s only because I don’t really understand the whole process of an atom and whatnot.
Denial, guilt & fear? Would it not be fear, denial & guilt? You fear the worst; when the worst happens, you are in denital; then you feel like perhaps could have changed whatever had happened. No? I don’t know.
Well, anywhoo… I found you on the Intelligent Thoughts blogring.
Peace =)
Oh & did you hear that Tool is coming out with a new CD?
Tool seems to be the one other thing in life that my significant other is in love with. I am constantly priviledged with knowledge about bands & their ‘release dates.’
… Yeah.
=)
Dear beanofish,
First off, thank you for your comments. Secondly, I tried to write on your site, but there was no comment section…. so I wrote here instead. Maybe you’ll read it. Thirdly, you made a good point about the order of the words I used. If I was to put it in a particular order, I would have it be fear, guilt, and denial. First, you’re afraid of something happening… then it happens, and you feel guilty for it… whether it’s your fault or someone elses… and if it’s your fault, then the only way to survive is to confront it, but that’s not what most do, because no one likes to think of themselves as being the one who is wrong. So in the end, you deny it, to make it go away.
But I didn’t put it in a particular order because I specifically was referring to something. It’s from a Nine Inch Nails song, and it’s very applicable to what I have been thinking about lately. I’m trying to confront myself with who I really am, so I can become who I want to be.
- broken_optimist